Saturday, April 30, 2011

Picnic & Perfect Weather

FRIDAY:

Wheaton Area Moms (WAM) had their annual picnic this Friday.  WAM is group of about 60 women and their children who live in our zip code.  The kids' ages range from 0-5 years.  This is by far my favorite moms group. 

Amelia and I attend the WAM infant playgroup every week.  The infant playgroup consists of about 6 other new moms and their babies.  We're a small group and meet at least once a week, so we've become really close.

Fortunately, Jimmy was able to get off work early and join our picnic.  I was excited because he was finally able to meet the people Amelia and I have been hanging out with.  After meeting the other moms and babies, Jimmy said he wished he could hang out with us more often.  I think he enjoyed watching the babies interact with each other... and all the mommy gossip ;0)

We were having so much fun that I forgot to take pictures!

SATURDAY:

We had super great weather on Saturday.  We are fortunate enough to live near Sligo Creek Trail, so we went for a long walk and stopped by one of the playgrounds on the trail.

We used the jogging stroller, since we were going out on the trail.  The large wheels are awesome and make for a smooth ride.


Swing!



I just thought her dress was the cutest.

Wednesday, April 27, 2011

Is That a Hippo on Your Head?

Amelia and I were out playing on the porch.  I put a little blue hippo doll on my head and this was her reaction:

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

8 Month Flower Girl

At 8 months our little girl has lots of personality.  She is generally a happy baby and pretty much everything makes her smile:  peek-a-boo, funny noises, seeing a familiar face, petting and watching the cats, playing with other babies, etc.  Anything out of the ordinary makes her giggle too.  For example, now if she sees anything on my head, like a stuffed animal or toy, she cracks up.   

She has been eating solids for a few months now.  She isn't as picky as I thought she would be.  She hasn't refused any foods and seems to eat pretty much anything you offer her.  In fact, Jimmy is a much more finicky eater than Amelia.  Her favorite foods so far are sweet potatoes and any kind of fruit. 

She can also pick up puffs and feed herself and has almost mastered the sippy cup.  Her only downfall is that she gets lazy.  (Of course, Jimmy gets full credit for passing down this trait.)  If she doesn't feel like picking up her sippy cup or feeding herself puffs, so won't do it.  She'll just scream until you do it for her.

I'm still nursing her and despite the introduction of her two new teeth, it has been going well.  My new goal is to continue until she's a year old.

My absolute favorite time of the day is the time during her last feeding, right before she goes to bed.  She's fresh from her evening bath and smells sooooo good.  The lights are turned down and her lullaby music is playing in the background.  It's just her and I rocking in the nursery.  She's usually exhausted and she snuggles up so close to me while she nurses.  I stroke her hair, give her kisses, and just stare at her.  I love it. 

Although she discovered her talking voice a few months ago, she has discovered another aspect of her vocal abilities: SCREAMING.  Although it was cute at first, her screams, screeches, and squeals are starting to get annoying, ha ha ha.  Now, when she's happy (which is most of the time), she screams!  She does make some normal sounds like "ba," "mmmmm," and "ddduh,"  but her vocal talent (and preference) is definitely in the screaming department.  I hope this is just a phase.

Amelia loves our playgroups. She has lots of friends and I'm realizing that she has a very social personality!  Even at just 8 months, she's always trying to talk and play with the other babies.  Yesterday, she and Ellana, who is also eight months, were "talking" to each other in their screaming voices. They went on and on... it was loud and hilarious!

She loves baths.  She has just now taken an interest in the water and bubbles.  She doesn't mind water in her face and has an obsession with the water hose and nozzle. 

After bath time is a different story.  She gets very upset when we get her dressed for bed.  I think part of the reason she gets cranky afterwards is that she is tired.  She calms back down again immediately during her last nursing session.  She is usually in bed by 7-7:30pm and sleeps 11-12 hours.

Jimmy was freaking out when he saw this bathing suit at the store.  Amelia just had to have it! 


Celebrating Early

Since the weather has been great, Jimmy surprised me and got me/us a jogging stroller as an early Mother's Day gift.  It is also Jimmy's early Father's Day gift.  I was so surprised when the giant box came in the mail. 

We had always planned to purchase one, but decided to wait until the weather was warm enough to use it.  Well, last week temperatures were in the 70's and this week it's in the 80's!  It's time for running outside! 

This picture was taken after a long run.  You can see Amelia chilling out with her hand above her head.  She loved it!

A picture from another outing we had.  Apparently the hand above the head pose is how she rolls in her jogging stroller!

Chillaxin'

Sunday, April 24, 2011

First Easter

A visit with the (creepy) Easter Bunny

Easter Dress & Eggs

So cute

My sweet little Mimi

Bunny from Nana

Very interested in the bunny's ribbon
  
Yummy bunny ear

Thursday, April 21, 2011

Coolin' at the Playground, Ya Know?

We had some good weather this week and we wanted to take advantage of the warm sunshine.  We decided it was time to take little Amelia to the playground. 

Swing!

She was so small, we had to stuff the back of the swing with our jackets so she could fit.

She actually liked it!

Slide!

Teeter-totter!

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

8 Month Giggles

Amelia is such a happy baby.  Everything makes her laugh!  People always comment  on how much she smiles and giggles.  In this video, Jimmy just finished feeding her lunch and he was playing peek-a-boo with her.  As you can see, she LOVES peek-a-boo!  Look closely and you can also see her two bottom teeth.



Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Eating the Piano

Tiger Mom is forcing me to practice my piano for 6 hours a day...

I would rather eat the piano

Chomp!

Check out my TWO bottom teeth!

Monday, April 18, 2011

The Politics of Playgroup & Parenting

Amelia and I are active in two mommy/baby groups, so our schedule has been filled with picnics, walks, library story time, craft projects, lunch dates, play groups, and play dates. We are having fun! Amelia just loves playing with the other babies!  Like I mentioned before, I truly appreciate and value the friendships and time spent with my new mommy friends. 

People always talk about how you should never talk about religion and politics with others because they are taboo topics and often result in some sort of argument or disagreement. Well, what people fail to mention and what I've come to realize, is that the topic parenting is also a difficult topic to discuss with others.

Obviously, the topic of parenting is going to come up during our mommy/baby functions. Although 98% of the time, there are no debates or arguments, there have been some heated discussions about certain parenting topics. The big debates are usually about:

Breastfeeding vs. formula, crib vs. co-sleeping, working vs. non-working mothers, disposable vs. cloth diapers, use of the cry-it-out method, vaccinations... I could go on and on.

Now matter what parenting strategy/choices you make, you will always be judged or (and this is new to me) people assume you are judging them, based on your choices. I noticed this right away during our first few mommy/baby group functions. I am definitely not one to preach my beliefs or instigate drama, so I usually just keep quiet to avoid awkward situations.

What I want people to know, is that I make choices based on what I feel is best for our family. Just because I make certain parenting choices, doesn't mean I think you're a bad person because you don't make the same choices. I hate it when people think my choices are a reflection of what I think about them. 

I know this just comes with the territory when you're a parent, so I guess I just have to get used to it.  It's still annoying.

Anyways, on a much lighter note... speaking of playgroup, here are some pics I took before our last function. Sadly, Amelia spit up all over her dress before we left, so she had to change into something else.

All dressed up and ready for playgroup
(Jimmy and I agree that the hat is now too small)

Saying goodbye to her bear before we leave

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Whitman Alumni Event - Gauguin

Jimmy and I went to a Whitman alumni event last weekend.  Jimmy was excited to see that his old advisor, Professor Lynn Sharp was in DC hosting a lecture and lunch for Whitman Alumni.  The lecture titled, "Legitimate Ferocity: Gauguin and Bourgeois France," was followed by lunch and a visit to the National Gallery to see Gauguin's work.

We had a good time and met some new people.  The crowd was very interesting because most of the alumni graduated before we were even born!  However, it was fun reminiscing about Whitman and our college days.  The couple we sat with was also a Whitman couple, meaning both of them gradated from Whitman.  I guess there's some crazy statistic that 50% or so of Whitties actually marry another Whittie.

It was funny because one of the organizers asked Jimmy and I how they could attract the younger alumni to the events... I just think it's funny because we are considered "young alumni" even though we graduated 10 years ago, ha ha ha.

Just a few days before our visit, a woman went to the gallery and tried to destroy this painting.  She thought it was "evil" and "homosexual."  She also said, "I am from the American CIA and I have a radio in my head."  Can you say crazy?  We were happy the painting was up and we were able to view it.  During our visit, the painting had its own guard!

My favorite 

Saturday, April 16, 2011

Knit Tea

I met some new people at a Walter Reed Auxiliary (Army spouses club) wine tasting event (the event where I won all those prizes!).  Apparently, some of the ladies I met get together regularly to knit and have tea.  I was invited and went for the first time last week.  It was so fun! 

What's great is that all the ladies are all around my age and have small children. During the "knit teas," they have a nanny and babysitters who watch the kids in another room and outside.  The knit tea is only for 90 minutes, but the moms use this time to chat, knit, and have tea.  They use it as a break from the kids to have adult conversation... it was refreshing.  What's funny is that the conversation almost always ended up being about our kids ;0)

Of course, I  don't know how to knit, but they assured me they would teach me.  I got the hang of it right away and am looking forward to learning the craft.  One of the ladies said she started going less than a year ago and is now working on a cardigan for her daughter.  I'm still in the process of practicing the knitting part.  Hopefully, once I get the hang of it, I can start on a project.

Can you guess what you are all getting for Christmas?   

Friday, April 15, 2011

3 month giggles

Better late than never...

Here is a one of our FAVORITE videos of Amelia.  In the video, she is 3 months old.  I was giving her "zirbits" and she loved it!  

April 22, yikes!

I considered giving up my career when I was pregnant.  In the end, Jimmy and I had decided that part-time work would be the best option. I thought resigning was too wasteful in consideration of the education and experience I have got. I figured part-time work would help keep my career on track, provide an outlet for me to use my "work brain," and keep me in touch with the professional working world.

However, there is a big change in my mind. Over these several months after Amelia was born, this idea of staying home full time has come up over and over again...

Well, after 5 months of part time work, I handed in my resignation letter and decided to be a stay at home mother... or as my friends call it, a domestic diva.  I am both excited and nervous!  Jimmy and I decided that it would be best for our family.  My last official day is April 22.

Emotionally, it’s definitely the power of the baby. She is so cute that I can’t help thinking of her every minute, like every mother does. I just want to be with her as much as possible.  Although our babysitter is awesome, we still didn't like the idea of Amelia being there two days a week. Jimmy is also getting promoted in May, so my resignation won't change our lifestyle at all. It just makes sense.

Most people assume it was an easy decision.  Believe me, it wasn't!  Call me a selfish person, but I struggled with postponing my career and all the goals I had planned with where I wanted my career to be.  I will technically be "unemployed" and I don't know how I feel (or am going to feel) about that. It was a hard decision for me because my career has always given me a sense of identity and self worth.  Most of my goals in life are centered on my job.  It will be truly hard to let it go.

I have been working since I was 16 and have never looked back.  My job at NIH is great and it sucks that I will have to give it up.  If I would have stayed, I would have gotten a fatty promotion and pay raise.  The irony is that I would have been at the level I thought would take me 10+ more years to get to.  Some of my friends/coworkers think I'm crazy to give up my job and some people have embraced my decision.

My new goals and aspirations now revolve around our family!  I am so thankful that our lifestyle allows for me to make this choice.  I plan to reenter the workforce when Amelia starts school.  If we have more children, it might be a few more years after that.  Who knows what the future will bring! 

Just one more week of work for me...I'm so excited ;0)

Thursday, April 14, 2011

An evening at the Lehman's

Yaaaaay, daddy is home from work!

Just chillin' in our jamma-jams before bedtime

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Hippo from Great Aunt Joanne

We got a surprise in the mail!  Thank you Aunt Joanne for thinking of Amelia.  She loves the hippo... Amelia and the hippo have the same giggle!

She giggles and smiles when the hippo laughs.  Very cute.

"I love my laughing hippo. Thanks great aunt Joanne!"

Big smiles.  Zoom in closely and you can see her two bottom teeth!

Now her "jamma-jams" are on.  Time for bed with her new hippo.

Friday, April 8, 2011

In love with my Ergo

I love love love my Ergo!  I use it every day and it makes life so easy.  I can do all kinds of chores while Amelia's in it (although it is hard to do anything that requires me to bend over).  I actually like using it better than the stroller.  It's so much easier to get around, especially in crowded areas.  In fact, when we're out and about, I only use the stroller now when she falls asleep in the car. 

Once, Amelia and I went shopping for over two hours and she was just as happy as can be being worn the whole time.  It's to the point where she sees me putting it on and she starts kicking and squeeling with joy.  Jimmy uses it too, but says he doesn't like it sometimes because people tend to stare at him, ha ha ha.

Through my favorite shopping website, etsy.com, I got these cute teething pads because Amelia was starting to suck on the straps.  The pads have little ribbon loops on them, so she plays with the ribbon taggies and I can attach a toy to the strap too.

Getting ready for our daily walk. 
It was sunny and 70 degrees outside!

Makes me feel pregnant again

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Mealzilla is back!

Amelia has been teething, which has been an interesting experience.  One minute she's happy, and then she'll randomly cry out.  Then, she's happy again.

Typical happy Amelia

Trying to decide whether she's happy or not...

Not happy

Super pissed off
(If you look close enough, you can see her bottom two teeth!)

Happy again

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Sooooo Tired...

Since Amelia has been teething, her nap schedule has been out of whack.  She missed her afternoon nap, but wasn't cranky, so I wasn't too worried about it.  Well, Jimmy feeds Amelia dinner at 5pm and this is what happened... our tired little girl fell asleep during her meal!


Amelia, Rudy & Olivia

Amelia is trying to get in on the cuddling action...
Rudy is annoyed, so she leaves :(

Olivia is brave and stays...
Amelia LOVES to pet the cats

We try to teach her to be gentle with the cats...
(sometimes she grabs and the cats run away)

Soft touches... so far, so good!
BFF!!