Jimmy is back to work, so I need to muster up some courage and venture out. I need to figure out a routine for our new life here. Most importantly, I NEED to make new friends.
Now that Jimmy's gone during the day, reality is starting to sink in. I'm starting to get lonely. It's just so hard. I'm so bad at "firsts," but it's good just to get it out of the way and move forward.
Meeting new friends is just like dating. You just need to put yourself out there. It's not like new BFF's are going to just fall into your lap, ha ha. I'm so nervous! I always feel so vulnerable and insecure around new people. I'm not exactly shy, but I'm not super outgoing either.
The "friend-dating" scene is so complicated! Do they like me? Do they like my kids? How long do you wait to call to meet up? Do you meet at their place, yours, or a neutral location? Am I talking too much? Am I too dressed up? OMG.
Our neighbors all seem to have young children and from what I've observed, all the moms in our cul de sac stay at home and almost all are military. I've already met a neighbor who has a three-year-old and nine month old, so it looks promising. The whole time Amelia was playing with the three-year-old I kept praying that she wouldn't hit him, ha ha.... and she didn't. Thank goodness!
I've also signed up for a play group, but I haven't attended any events yet. I'm also going to start taking some classes at the gym, so that might be another place to meet people. I'm also hoping Jimmy's new coworkers are cool too and will want to hang out.
We will see what happens...